HI Friends, there is a new program on Vijay TV called Kitchen Superstar..reality cooking show! (No no – I am not promoting this program)

Each week there are different set of 5-6 television personalities and Actor(yesteryear actor) Suresh hosts it – 3 minutes into the show and my daughter Divya says, Dad, this resembles “Masterchef – Australia”..she was absolutely right – the settings, theme – hmm!!
Its ok – If there is good program, good movie, etc., we need to bring it to the local audiences also – right or else they would not get to see the wonderful entertainment showcased in other countries!! ;)

The chef (Chef Venkatesh) who judged the show was particularly strict / tough…giving pretty straight feedback and putting the amateur chef’s to complete unease all through the program.

But finally when he summarized at the end, it was well packaged and amazing and wonderful piece of advice that he gave!! One particular theme/ concept that he mentioned was “Clean as you go” which made me to wonder what this is all about!

Was casually using this phrase all through the week (at home) - so much that I could after a while, see some different reactions from my wife and daughter!!

So researched on the web and what this is all about – surprise surprise!! It is concept like 5S (for those who are aware of this) or like six sigma and some Companies even have it as a policy.

"Clean as you go" is a piece of cooking advice -
Post-cleaning makes the process seem sooo much longer and arduous to have all that work left to do after the payoff of eating. Not to mention, items that aren't cleaned right away tend to be more difficult to clean because the food gets gunked onto the dishes.

Cleaning as you Go (cook) so that we avoid separate cleaning later (aka mountain of dishes to clean or waking up to a messy kitchen). It would feel better organized and more focused when your workspace is tidy. The ingredients would stand right in front of you - fewer mistakes & Cooking would be more fun. Imagine working in a clean, uncluttered environment.

In an office, imagine working in a clean desk as against a messy work place, jumbled desk.

In a factory environment, it's identified as best practice from a Health & Safety view apart from hygiene point of view (prevention of slips / trips and falls). It's used as part of lean methodologies.

It's important if you establish this kind of regime to remind staff that hand hygiene is important after any cleaning activity as "clean as you go" can make people think they pick up some rubbish and then go straight back to handling food.

Some corporates have it as a Company policy (especially in manufacturing) – the perceived benefits include productivity and having a safer work place – be it the kitchen or your work place. Imagine working in a neat beautiful well arranged place vs. a messy dirty workplace – what would you prefer?

To me, it is lot about attitude and how each of us can do work in a much smarter way!!

How about you? Do you clean as you go while cooking/ working?

People and Cultures - China

In the training program in Shanghai, there was a session where we were discussing people and cultures.

Each of us were sharing something unique about their country or something which they are proud of, about their country.

As each of us were sharing our proud (Aaha!!) moments, a participant from China said “We are proud that people from China do not take tips (in hotels, taxis, etc.). That was shocking to me…we “hear” so much about corruption in many countries including China. How is this possible?

Back in the hotel room, I started to reflect back on my few days in Shanghai and…!

Not once had the Bell boys asked or had a “Given me a tip, PLEASE” look on their face. Similarly the taxis gave exact change back, no cribbing if we asked them to take some place – always the meter!

Another time, I had a problem with the toilet flush – somebody attends to it and then he is almost running away once the job is done. I ask him to wait to be sure it is properly fixed. Once I confirm, he is literally out of the door. I thought it was the language the reason (most people don’t speak English Yet).

But after hearing the “Tips” story, I was able to understand why the toilet mechanic left the room so fast.

Another side of the Chinese culture that i was not aware and felt great to hear n Share.
Ok, back to corruption - there is a bigger story about this in China; maybe will share it in some other blog, some other day!

More stories!!!

One story from India (not shared in that forum) was on the Sardarji’ s in India. There are other jokes as well – Mallu jokes, Lalu jokes, etc. – but the most popular ones are the Sardarji jokes :)

Khushwant Singh the noted literary giant shared on why the Sardars are so very popular - they are able to joke about themselves and take it in the right spirit when others joke about them.
here it goes - you might have heard this story before

"During his last vacation, his few friends came to Delhi. They rented a taxi for local sight-seeing. The driver was an old Sardar and boys being boys, these pals began cracking Sardarji jokes, just to tease the old man. But to their surprise, the fellow remained unperturbed.

At the end of the sight-seeing, they paid the cab hire-charges. The Sardar returned the change, but he gave each one of them one rupee extra and said,

''Son, since morning you have been telling Sardarji jokes. I listened to them all and let me tell you, some of them were in bad taste. Still, I don't mind coz I know that you are young blood and are yet to see the world. But I have one request. I am giving you one rupee each. Give it to the first Sardar beggar that you come across in this or any other city.''

My friend continued, "That one rupee coin is still with me. I couldn't find a single Sardar begging anywhere."

Sikhs are one of the hardest working, prosperous and diversified communities in the world.
Something we as Indians can definitely feel proud off!!

Moving on.. (Just for laughs!!)

I heard of how hard negotiators some people are! Japanese, Germans…..on a relative scale, Chinese people / Indians would be far below.

There is one interesting place however in Shanghai – Called AP plaza or more popularly the “Fake market”.
You need to bargain - You Really NEED TO BARGAIN!!

For e.g. I bought Rolex watches here for "**"- guess what !!

The price started off around 500 Yuan and then - bulk purchase (9 watches), hard bargaining, we successfully bargained it for 110 Yuan (about Rs.900)

Rolex watches for Rs 900;hmm!
I used to wear this and proudly announce as “Original fake Rolex watches” – You can never find it out that it is not original, unless someone told you!

In this shopping plaza, you get so many things – clothes, bags, watches, iPhones, latest DVD’s, DS games!!! But you NEED to bargain.

The storekeepers know that you will bargain, so they quote a higher price. The potential buyers know that these are to be bargained, so they bargain.. So it is a vicious circle…

Some tricks to bargain included, walking away from the shop as if you are not interested (after bargaining for 5 minutes), going to buy at 7.45 pm  (closing time), recalling that you bought from him earlier (genuinely or just like that!!)

Listen to this experience from Russell Peters - on why Chinese and Indians can’t do business together
I have watched this video so many times and each time I have fallen down laughing.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k2W8aGgmn1A&feature=fvwrel  –Cool, longer version!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jsd0ZJOrIZQ  – Shorter version – Good!

Cheers and have a great day ahead :)

Hi Friends, this week i am sharing a great poem by Khalil ~ read slowly and again; you would really get a very different feeling and also feel the power of the words. This was shared by my good friend and colleague Ramesh

The Prophet ~ Children --- written by Khalil Gibran

And a woman who held a babe against her bosom said, "Speak to us of Children." And he said:

Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you, yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.

You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer's hand be for gladness;
For even as he loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

See also a related YouTube Video http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LoyjKygp7qU

Go Slow to go faster

An interesting concept that I learned in China, adding some spice from the web!

Let us start with a true World war II story

During World War II, Navy fighter planes had a watch embedded in the steering column – not to help the pilot keep time, but to help save his life. The first step in a pilot’s emergency response process was to wind the watch. It may sound crazy, but Navy psychologists had proven that the split second required for a pilot to wind the watch was enough time for him to clear his head of distractions and to focus instead on the emergency at hand. The one second spent winding that watch bought him considerable time, enabling him to react in a more logical, coherent way.

You might have guessed more about the topic by now!

In today’s business world, we are all so busy, so stretched, so overcommitted, and so inundated with information, that we sometimes forget to wind the watch – to focus on what’s important and create space to accomplish our ultimate objectives…

Time to slow down and think. Which got me thinking…in today’s fast-paced work world, maybe there’s wisdom in slowing down. I know that it’s counterintuitive, as shorter and faster is usually preferred over longer and slower. After all, today is all about quick communication: email, social media including 140-character Tweets, webinars instead of conferences. We’re all just so busy. Therefore, quicker decisions, quicker action, quicker resolution allows us to move on to other things.

Today, speed reigns.    But speed also kills.

Frank Partnoy, a professor of law/finance at the University of San Diego and author of “Wait: The Art and Science of Delay,” summed it up in an HBR article (“Act Fast, but Not Necessarily First”): “The crush of technology forces us to snap react. We blink, when we should think. E-mail, social media, and 24-hour news are relentless. Our time cycle gets faster every day.”

He continues by declaring that, as decision-making accelerates, long-term strategy becomes even more crucial, and that those who find time to step back and think about the big picture – even for a few minutes – will have a major advantage over those who knee-jerk react. “If everyone else moves too quickly,” he says, “we can win by going slow.” He believes that humans – leaders – are often better off resisting biology and technology by managing delay.

Partnoy references a military strategy, similar to winding the watch I mention above.

A decision-making framework developed by military strategist John Boyd decades ago is still being used by many military (and business) leaders today. It’s called the OODA model, simply the acronym for Observe, Orient, Decide, and Act. Its premise is basically allowing your enemy (or, in business, your competitor or other third party market forces) to go first, and then quickly react to the situation.
It’s about not necessarily being first (with a product, a process, a technology, or what have you), but being the fastest at responding to changing market conditions (and “market” can be external or internal to the organization).

As Partnoy indicates, the ultimate goal of OODA is not being first, but instead having a fast response, which requires slowing things down up front so that you can move quickly when ready.

Here is another true story of a legend: George Brett, ace baseball “pure hitter” - had a natural swing and was incredibly comfortable in the batter’s box, especially during critical moments of the game.

But he revealed years after his retirement that the secret of his hitting success was in his ability to see the ball out of the pitcher’s hand, and in a split second – by observing the velocity and rotation of the baseball stiches – determine what type of pitch was being thrown. Are you kidding me?! Brett – and I imagine many of the other hitting greats – could actually see the quarter-inch red stitching on a three inch baseball some 60 feet away, oh, and travelling some 95 miles an hour at his head? I guess that is what separates the good from the great in major league baseball. But it also illustrates a key point here: in doing so, Brett was able to delay his swing by milliseconds but adjust with the “right” swing given the pitch that was being thrown. In essence, he slowed down to speed up. And he is still considered one of the top dozen or so best hitters to ever play the game

There is a saying in martial arts: you have to go slow to go fast. It means something different than what it sounds like. The idea is that you have to be relaxed  - untense  - to move as quickly as you are capable of.

Go slow today, to go faster in life! Think of the things to "untense/Slow down" to respond better to the different challenges of life :)

This is from my China training- building on a concept learnt there with inputs from the internet

                                              “Shadow of the Leader”

When you think of the title, it could bring up different thoughts in your mind. In an office it could be something like “ The train is as fast as the engine”; “A fish rots from the head first”; “A chip off the old block”. On a more personal family front, it could be “You’re just like your father”; ..

Hmm…this blog is about OUR conscious and sub-conscious behaviors / habits that others watch and pick up; Could be in office or at home ; could be your peer or your team member or your own child.

Let me start with a couple of real stories –
On a smaller e.g., looks like the New Vice President - Finance of a company had a habit of tapping his pen on to his other hand while sitting in presentations. Guess what – in a couple of weeks, the habit had caught on with many other Management staff and they were also sub-consciously tapping a pen, while in meetings – no harm, except that it could be very distracting indeed!!

On the web, I noticed a very good e.g.
                                          “One of my favorite personal examples of this is being on time to meetings. I’m known for always running late between meetings. In my earlier days, my managers would often sit me down and calmly tell me that they didn’t appreciate my tardiness and I needed to shape up. I tried and it would get a little better, but I would slowly fall back to my natural tendencies. Once I became the “Manager” I was so relieved because there were less people giving me a hard time about being late.

                                            My direct reports didn’t complain, they understood and assumed I was busy with very important matters and that’s just how things work. What I didn’t realize, though, was that my “shadow” told them it was OK for them to be late to meetings too. On one rare occasion, I arrived to my staff meeting a couple minutes early and it wasn’t until about 10 minutes after the start time that everyone else showed up. My initial reaction was to make a comment about being on time for our meetings – fortunately, before I said anything out loud I started laughing to (or rather “at”) myself. My pattern of being late told them that it was OK and that our staff meetings always started ten minutes late.”

What a colonial waste of time – especially for people who have arrived on time. Also looks so unprofessional!!

On meetings, I was told that a person named Alan Mulally (some of you might have heard of him) actually comes for meetings one minute before the start time and similarly prompts his team periodically to ensure timely completion of meetings. If the item needs a longer discussion, it is subject of a separate meeting or discussion. Wow – Now that sound very professional.

Notes: Alan Mulally is President and CEO of Ford Motor Company who turned the company back to Profits; seems to have also won some awards along the way – “CEO of the year-2011”; “Person of the year -2011” etc.

Going into a much broader definition:
                                  "Shadow of the leader" is a phrase used to describe a common phenomenon in business organizations where those in positions of leadership and power, through their behavior and actions, tend to influence the behavior and actions of those below them, thus “casting a shadow” across the organization. “Shadow of the leader” refers to Leaders, through their likes, dislikes, treatment of subordinates, language and idioms, personal preferences, beliefs and values tends to shape the characteristics, culture and ways of doing business in the organization.

                                     The Shadow a leader casts with his/her team can drive the success or failure of the team. Think about it. As a leader, every move you make is being watched by the people who work for you. They take their cues on what is important by the things you pay attention to. They will reference a comment I made or email I sent about a particular topic and apply more meaning to it then what was intended.

                                     It is not so much that leaders force their style and values on others, but that employees tend to look upwards for clues as to what is important, how to get ahead in the organization, and how to fit in. It is a natural tendency for people with limited power within organizations to have an “affiliation need” and want to fit in. Those that don't match the culture or don’t get along with the boss's standards and expectations tend to get rejected or leave the firm, often saying; “I just didn’t fit in with their way of doing business!”

Another true story from the web to emphasize the Leadership Shadow impact:
                  At a busy / crowded store/ workplace -- The place was jammed with customers, and everyone was hoppin’. That included the store manager, who was a complete stress case. He was tight-faced, tight-lipped, and curt with customers and his team. He wasn’t rude . . . he was just going through the motions.
                And, as I noticed, so was everyone on his team. No one smiled. No one said “please” or “thank-you.” Everyone was just moving people through the line with as little personality as possible. You’ve heard it before: “I can help the next person.” Sub-text: “I can help the next person, but I don’t really want to.”

                    The idea is that leaders shape their cultures through a powerful combination of message aligned with action. Through actions, attitudes and messages, they cast a shadow that influences everyone around them. The shadow a leader casts may be strong and inspiring, or it may be weak and dispiriting, but it always exists. It is a reflection of everything a leader says and does.
                             
                    So, as I watched the team, I noticed they were following their leader, doing as he did, matching his actions and attitude. Without knowing it, he was setting a powerful example and casting a dispiriting shadow. It’s that easy to do! Leaders lead without knowing it. All they have to do is be themselves, and walk their own talk. That’s the beauty of leadership, and it’s the burden of leadership. Your actions speak loudly, and someone is always watching.

Here is a positive impact true story from the web
                      A new VP of Sales held a regional sales review meeting where each manager was expected to present their sales forecast, where they stood against plan, and the supporting rationale. After hearing one presentation and the beginning of a second where the managers complained about their products and lamented their lack of technology and the robust product capabilities of their competitors, he stopped the meeting. He got up and moved deliberately to the front of the room in what seemed like a scene from the movie Patton.

                         He then said, "I didn't come here to listen to excuses about why you can't sell because you believe the competition has better products, technology or whatever. What I do expect to hear is how your commitment and strategy to sell our company's products is producing results. After that, I'm open to discussing what we can all do to improve. For those of you who may not have heard or understood what I just said, let me reiterate. We all get paid to sell the products and services of this company and it requires everyone's commitment to be successful. You have a choice to make, which I expect to see at the reschedule date of this meeting."
                          That situation helped change the dynamic of the sales team and it became part of the folklore that helped shape the future culture of that company.

Managing your shadow as a leader is a simple matter of awareness and intent. Here’s a three-step process for better understanding your shadow:

1. Identify your shadow. How do your actions, attitudes and messages influence the culture?

2. Develop a shadow improvement plan. Once you’ve identified your current shadow, focus on your strengths and figure out how you can use them to improve your shadow.

3. Share your shadow. Talk about this concept with your team, and ask them to help keep you on track and casting the shadow that positively influences the work culture.

A critical element of the leadership shadow is the "Say-Do" factor. It has to do with having the courage of your convictions. Essentially, if you say you are going to do something but act differently when it's not politically correct or represents a risk to you or your position, you put your credibility at risk as a leader and create doubts about what the company stands for.

A regular question to ask ourselves: "What kind of shadow am I casting as a leader?"

In closing, as Warren Bennis said, “A leader doesn’t just get the message across, a leader is the message.”

                                                          Cheers and Happy Shadowing!! :)

                                        Listening

In her book, Listening with the Whole Body, Sheila Frick asserts that listening is active, voluntary, dynamic and continually adapting.

                                      Hearing and eyesight are passive;

                                      Listening and vision are active

They require the brain to act upon, perceive, interpret and store information. They are cognitive functions that distinguish human beings.

Let me share another Classic stuff. During my training in Shanghai, in one of the modules we learnt that the (traditional) Chinese character for listening is written as:

When translated into English, the Chinese symbol is made up of five elements:

• You
• Your ears
• Your eyes
• Your heart
• Your undivided attention

Did you get that!!! When we listen to each other carefully we become observers of nonverbal behaviors that reveal what words may not. Facial expressions, eye contact, gestures, use of touch and other aspects of body language construe perhaps 75–80% of the "communication iceberg."

So listen. listen carefully. moreover, if you have something delicate to discuss, try to do it in person.

Essentially, the Chinese symbol for the verb “to listen” reads –
“I give you my ears, my eyes, my undivided attention and my heart” -
a Great definition of listening, isn’t it?

Some people ask questions for the sake of asking questions they rarely hear the answers. Others never stop talking long enough to warrant a response.

Listening is all about being there at that moment in time

It isn’t checking your watch because you have three more meeting to attend, nor is it staring around at the other people in the room while the other person is talking. It is about showing respect and taking an interest. The speaker has given up their time to see you, this is the first step to a successful meeting, don’t blow it because your attention span doesn’t stretch far enough!

Here are some essential rules to Good listening;

1. Listen without judgment. The purpose of dialogue is to understand, not judge right or wrong, good or bad. When you judge, you are conversing with yourself, not another.

2. Listen to fully understand and then respond – and only in that order. If you didn’t understand say so and ask again

3. Listen for understanding. You don’t have to agree or believe... just understand.

4. Ask clarifying questions. These assist understanding. Qualify what you have heard e.g. “So if I heard you right, you are saying that…”

5. Suspend assumptions. You know you are making an assumption if you are annoyed or upset.

6. There will be a point when you become conscious that you stopped listening, turn it back on again. If you think you missed something important, politely cover it off again

7. Make "I" statements. Speak for yourself, not "everyone."

8. Take ownership of what you say.

9. Suspend status. All are equal in the dialogue process: no seniority or hierarchy.

10. Honor confidentiality.

11. Create a safe space for self-expression.

12. Speak one at a time. When two people are talking at once, neither is listening.

13. Respect silence. Take time to reflect on what you heard and how you want to respond.

Happy listening! :-)

Why men are from Earth and Women are also from Earth! -- The unspoken words!!

Years back, I remember reading an interesting incident in the “ Humour in uniform section” – yes, you have guessed it right!  This is in Readers Digest!

Here is my narrative on this..(means, am not able to trace the original article :)  )

Apparently during the world war, the Nazis and Allies were locked in a fierce battle near a hillock and it was reaching a stalemate situation.  Each side could not progress an inch as both the armies were well entrenched and probably equally matched.

In war these situations could be common, but on the ground level a small problem was being faced. Soldiers of both sides were fatigued by the continuous battle and had not had a break or a bath for days…yes days. The solution was apparently simple – right in between the two warring factions ran a small stream. The victor could go and have a bath, but the situation was a stalemate!

Finally one smart soldier realizing that both sides have these issue, did something different.He dropped his gun and his dress, ran (almost) nude to the stream with his hands up and took a quick bath and ran back.

Seeing this, soldiers from both the sides started to do this one by one…and the problem was solved!! Did anybody shoot – no way – even though it was the enemy soldier who was bathing, they realized the situation and there was an unspoken agreement.

In real life, people know that Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus; quite poles apart.

But there are situations where sometimes sometimes both of us pretend that the situation does not exist & carry on with things. In a way people might think this is conflict avoidance, but there are situations where I think this is alright – my view is – this is a way of giving space to each other.

Let me give an e.g. to make my point
 * One of my friends smokes – used to do it before marriage and post marriage, was wondering what would happen.  Well…the girl does not like him smoking (like all girls do! ;) –  The unwritten, sorry unspoken agreement here is: the boy has reduced smoking and does not smoke in front of her or in the house. So the boy get his space (literally, to smoke) and the girl acknowledges the fact that he has reduced smoking.
Truly Win-Win!!!
Just imagine the other way around…Girl insists that the boy should not smoke..it is good for both their health!!  But if the boy does not accept this - could lead to conflicts or the boy might still continue the habit secretly - not acceptable!
* Other e.g. of the unspoken agreements:
                 *  People of different religious beliefs getting married ; each of them could still follow their beliefs without converting to the other religion – each not enforcing their religion or beliefs on other!

                 * What about eating habits --- one person eats non-veg and other does not!! Should the spouse convert to being a Vegan or the other way round…Not essential if you are both agree to disagree on this.

Realize the power of the unspoken words with your spouse and try and give each other space.

Truly life is much more Happier if each of us realize our space / the unspoken words and know that all of us are from the same good ol Mother earth!Sometimes there could be “views” or Opinions or judgment – on a particular situation; Not necessary that there is only one “Final” view between the couple or that the spouse should accept the others view & change their viewpoint.

The Crisis that blew over

Let us start with a very good old joke..

When the Lord made Man, all the different parts of the body got into a discussion as to who is the Chief. The brain said it should be the Chief because it did all the thinking and guided the body.The eyes said it should be the Chief because it did all the seeing and helped to go to the right places.The ears said it should be the Chief because it did all the hearing.

The mouth said it should be the Chief because it allowed the body to eat and helped it to gain the energy to do other things. The Stomach countered with the explanation that since he digested all the food, he should be the Chief.The Legs argued that since they took the Man herever he wanted to go, he should be the Chief.


The debate went on without any consensus until the a**ehole butted in (pun intended) and argued that it should be the Chief.

There was a moment of total silence before all the parts of the body rolled on the ground laughing uncontrollably. “You can’t be the Chief,” they replied. “You are just an a**ehole.”

This made the a**ehole very angry and it clammed up and refused to open. Nothing could enter the body through the a**ehole, not even a plastic device. More importantly, nothing could leave the body and after a few days the brain became mushy and could no longer think. The eyes became watery and could no longer see. The ears became zingy and could no longer hear. The mouth, tongue, hands, feet, fingers, toes and whatnot all became weak and could no longer function properly.

By the fourth day the body was at the point of death and all the parts of the body relented and agreed that the a**ehole should be the Chief. The a**ehole had clearly proven that it was the most superior part of the body. From that day on the a**ehole became the Chief and ruled over the entire body.

What!!! Can you believe this (true!!) story..


So this takes us to the current crisis of the last week…Petrol and Diesel shortages in Tamil Nadu as well as India; In Tamil Nadu not only do vehicles run on Petrol/ Diesel, but due to the power crises / shortage, so many offices (Esp. IT/ ITES) use Diesel extensively!!

Let us move for a minute to a different scene; I am sure many of us would remember the famous James Bond dialogue “The world is not enough”…in the movie with the same title.

James Bond, the world's greatest secret agent, is sent once more into the breach in the name of Queen, Country, and a dry martini. 007 must resolve a potentially deadly power struggle between two unstable nations, with control of the world's oil supply as the ultimate prize. Bond is assigned as bodyguard to Elektra King, the daughter of a petroleum magnate who was brutally murdered, and is trying to foil the fiendish plot of Renard.

During his assignment, Bond unravels a scheme to increase petroleum prices by triggering a nuclear meltdown in the waters of Istanbul. Finally Bond in true Vijayakanth style oops Bond style unravels the puzzles and saves the world. And in the climax, it turns out that Elektra is the villain who had been brain washed while in captivity in order take control the world Oil reserves and ultimately rule the world.

Bond is about to arrest her and she (still deeply in love with Bond) offers him the World (All of the World’s oil reserves) and then comes the famous Bond dialogue “ The World is not enough”..and the rest as they say is history!!!

Now coming back to crisis of the last week, still the reasons for this sudden crisis and 4-5 days dry-out still remains a mystery and the sudden way it was resolved remains a bigger mystery.

Indeed, The crisis has blown over and we have moved on!

Going back to joke with which we started --
Think for a minute and you might wonder who are next chief is…fuel Or power or Water or ? you might never know which a**ehole could jack us up and hold everyone to ransom! ;)

Finishing off with the theme song of the “the world is not enough” – The world is just not enough!


"The World is not Enough"

I know how to hurt
I know how to heal
I know what to show
And what to conceal
I know when to talk
And I know when to touch
No one ever died from wanting too much

The world is not enough
But it is such a perfect place to start, my love
And if you're strong enough
Together we can take the world apart, my love

People like us
Know how to survive
There's no point in living
If you can't feel the life
We know when to kiss
And we know when to kill
If we can't have it all
Then nobody will


The world is not enough
But it is such a perfect place to start, my love
And if you're strong enough
Together we can take the world apart, my love
I feel safe
I feel scared
I feel ready
And yet unprepared
The world is not enough
But it is such a perfect place to start, my love
And if you're strong enough
Together we can take the world apart, my love


The world is not enough
The world is not enough
No Nowhere near enough,
The world is not enoughThe debate continued with the hands, feet, fingers, toes, neck and all the other parts of the body arguing their case as to why they should be the Chief.

I am your constant companion.



I am your greatest asset or heaviest burden.


I will push you up to success or down to disappointment.


I am at your command.


Half the things you do might just as well be turned over to me.


For I can do them quickly, correctly, and profitably.


I am easily managed; just be firm with me.


Those who are great, I have made great.


Those who are failures, I have made failures.


I am not a machine, though I work with the precision of a


machine and the intelligence of a person.


You can run me for profit, or you can run me for ruin.


Show me how you want it done. Educate me. Train me.


Lead me. Reward me.


And I will then...do it automatically.


I am your servant.


Who am I?


I am a habit.



From Habits Die Hard - by Mac Anderson & John J. Murphy

Taking Decisions in tough times...

Well…We (My wife and me) were in a big dilemma on a Major life decision that we had to take.

In reality, it is a very a simple situation complicated by too many variables.

We had agreed on a particular path and we had sat and discussed on the wonderful benefits which all of us would have.We were excited to take this path and glad that it was finally coming to light.

All this suddenly changed on one fine day/ a small event and also because of changed decisions of people close to us, which had a Big impact on us. Now, we were in a real quandary on whether to go on that particular path. Newer challenges seemed to crop out of nowhere and our mind seemed totally cluttered with all the challenges that we would have to face, if we go down our chosen path.

Hmm…a week of sleepless nights, a little tension on the future – Hmmm..too many things and too many variables and Too much tension!!

We closed the chosen idea and started to work on alternatives!!

Interesting ideas and even more good options now became available.Some options had more advantages than the chosen path..hmm!!

So here we are now ready for a change – acceptance, and we start to do the ground work on planning to execute the new alternative…but something something inside was still all not Ok!!

Hmm…time to take a final decision and go to Execute the alternative chosen!!

I get a call from my school friend living abroad asking if we could meet – he says it would be a short meeting only, since he has to leave the same night. Momentarily I forget about the BIG decision/ challenges and with loads of fond childhood recollections & memories, I go to meet my friend.

We casually chat and catch up on our lives within those 50 minutes and end up discussing a number of things – family, friends, School, etc..(No bitching though!! ;-() ) During the course of the conversation, something which he speaks strikes a chord in me…

It is now time to go and we profoundly say those last few words which good friends tell if they are going to see each other only after a long while.

But I also tell him “thanks” for giving me clarity on the path that I want to choose!! We had discussed in between on this topic, but when he connected with his example…things started to look so different, and the variables and challenges that came up no longer looked big!! There are work-arounds, there will be challenges, but time to rethink!!!

I go home and announce to my wife that “Hey – let us go down the original path and Let us make it happen!!!”

A sound of joy erupts – turning around, I see my daughter jump with joy at this decision – Seeing this,Joy erupts all around the house - we realized THEN that this is what the heart has been saying always!!

Yes, there will be challenges, but we agreed to work with them and make this a Great decision!!!And So, the decision was made!!! :-)

A chance meeting and a Happy decision at the end!!